How To Keep Your Girlfriend Attracted Long Term

On one hand…

Keeping your girlfriend attracted to you in your relationship is very important.

If she’s more attracted to you, she will enjoy being with you much more, and she will be a better girlfriend for you.

On the other hand…

Keeping your girlfriend attracted to you is CRITICALLY important to having a healthy relationship that lasts over time.

Bottom line, if she’s not attracted to you, she will ultimately cheat on you or leave you. If she’s too nice to hurt you like that, she will stay, but she will withdraw into her shell, she won’t enjoy being with you, and she’ll keep thinking about other guys who are much more attractive than you.

Long term attraction is an excellent foundation for a great relationship. Your sex is better, your love is better, your life is better.

But wait…

Keeping your girlfriend attracted in a relationship involves several things that you must be aware of.

Find out where your woman sees you as a wuss, and turn it around.

No man is perfect. We all have areas where we are unattractive to women. Don’t beat yourself up about it, because for the most part, women are super lenient about it.

They don’t expect you to never be a wuss, but they definitely want to see that you’re trying your best to be a good man.

Some common ways guys make women lose attraction:

They are insecure

They are stagnating in life, and they’re not doing anything about it.

They complain too much

They lose their composure at the wrong time and look like a wuss.

They are too submissive in the relationship.

They have a weak spine – no integrity.

They are not authentic – wear a fake mask, too afraid to vulnerably express themselves.

They do not face things in life, they avoid like cowards.

If you do any of these, or you do something else, then your girlfriend is not as attracted to you as she could be, and you can fix this – here’s how:

1. Acknowledge your shortcomings. This is not a sign of weakness but of strength. It takes a strong man to admit his own weaknesses. Besides, the only way to convince your girlfriend that your behavior will change is for you to admit that you were wrong. If you are in denial, she will think you will never change.

2. Express that you are very upset for letting yourself down. This will let her know that you have standards that you live up to… Attractive stuff.

3. Vow to never mess up again. When I say vow, I mean vow. Swear on all that is sacred to you. She must believe that you are going to change, otherwise it won’t work.

4. Reassert yourself as the man. I recommended to my friend that he passionately ravage his girlfriend in bed so that he reestablished himself as the man she was upset about losing… you can do that or something which clearly demonstrates that you are back to normal. This could be sex, a bold display of courage, or maybe you give her a rush on an amazing adventure. Whatever the case, after you acknowledge your shortcomings, you have a small window of opportunity to PROVE that you are the new man that you say you are. If you assert your manhood around this time, she will believe you, and act accordingly.

It’s important to remember that it’s VERY hard to change what people think of you. This method will work, but once you’ve buried the hatchet on your screw-ups, you must act the part moving forward. If you use this opportunity to rise to the occasion, she will be much more attracted to you, and your relationship will be stronger on all levels.